Been dating a guy I've known most of my life this past 3 months, first while was great but then I noticed his lifestyle is so free-spirited, he is off work indefinitely cause of a surgery he had, he doesn't drive, plays xbox and watches movies most of the day, he told me he was taking me out for dinner, I got dressed up and got a sitter, he took me to Ben and Jerry's for a cup of tea, I never raise a fuss but felt hurt. I have kids and he can't stay in my mines long before he becomes stressed and needs to leave, I pick him up and leave him home, sometimes I'm so tired. We had an argument on Wed because I assumed we would be together on new years Eve, he said he always goes to the bar and it was important to him to be with his friends, my mother died in April so Im dreading new years eve. We didn't speak and he left for a bachelor weekend on Fri, early hours of sat he messaged could we talk when we gets back, I said yes, he apologised and we said goodnight, I initiated contact yesterday at 3pm, we exchanged a few messages and that was it, it's been nearly 15 hours since he's even texted. I just don't know if I can have a relationship like this, we are both in our 30's. He borrowed money to go to the bachelor party, I don't know if he wants to still talk and whether I even do. So confused
Is this guy worth my heart?
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This guy says he's going to take you out for dinner and the buys you a tea. You drive, you give him money and new years he doesn't invite you to be with his friends. Honestly you are his lowest priority and useful only as a convenience.1
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