Me and this guy only started dating so I'm trying not to overreact about stupid things or overthink. But tonight I messaged him he replied quickly on snapchat to the first few messages but has ignored the last one I sent but is uploading videos of his friends. So should I not take this to heart because he is with his friends watching the game and having fun. So I'm kind of torn between being a little bit hurt and then my friend said its rude what his doing and I should say something. What do you guys think?
- Don't take it to heart his having fun with his friends and doesn't need his girlfriend annoying him?80% (8)56% (5)68% (13)Vote
- Say something to him?20% (2)22% (2)21% (4)Vote
- Other0% (0)22% (2)11% (2)Vote
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I would say something to him but not right now. I would wait for now till his friends are not around because you don't want him or his friends to think you are trying to take him from them. It is something you both are going to have to work on. A relationship is no easy task between school or work and staying in touch with friends in family while still giving you the time and love you need is something you guys are going to have to work on together. I don't think that it's a big problem right now but if he is not willing to change then it will become one. He just can't leave you in the dark when he is with his friends. I hope that will help you that's the best advice I got for ya. Just try to be respectful of his feelings and he need to do the same to you; and if it is truly upsetting you then you need to let him know how you feel just try not to come across as clingy and you will be fine... Good luck1