my boyfriend asked me on my thoughts of a strip club i said i didn't like it because i feel like thats something you do when your single and to make him understand why i dint i said how would you feel if i went with my girlfriends to a strip club and their was a naked guy right in front of me. he said he wouldn't mind it as long as i wasn't doing anything with them. do you think i should let him and does he have a point? or maybe im too old school that i feel like doing stuff like that in a relationship is wrong?
Uh, no way. I say it's fair to say he has asked permission to cheat on you. Just because he has low standards and doesn't expect fidelity doesn't mean you need to bend for him. In short, game over. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I just can't imagine asking my girlfriend if she minded me staring at naked women. Actually, I can imagine it, and it would end in a hospital bed.
You're not old school. This world doesn't have the loyalty it used to have for relationships.
Friendships, Relationships and Companionships are precious things. Not to be undertaken lightly... There's a responsibility one should have to their girlfriend or boyfriend, to be loyal and trustworthy.
I'm barely an adult... If that's old-school thinking, then this world thinks like 13 year olds. Because they're just hitting puberty but are obviously not thinking straight still. ;)
My Girlfriends never stopped me if I ever went - granted it was very occasional like not even once a year and I was trustworthy as well- but nevertheless they were all awesome about it as long as there was no private dances/touching
If he's just going with his buddies to have a drink and chillax and you can trust him, let him go