there is this guy I used to work with who used to flirt with me etc. and would text me now and then.
then he whent away for 4 months, in that time he texted me a few times.
then came back to visit for a few weeks and asked me on a date.
we went on 2 dates then we slept together. after he wasn't as conversational as usual, so it upset me
and i felt used so i ended it. he was upset. a week later we talked about things and got back on track.
he has left again for a month. but things are not the same, he texts me less often and when i text him he takes a long time to respond. and when he does they are short.
Has he lost interest? should i not bother anymore? when he comes back should i just ignore him?
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The sooner you realize that he played you the better. Though its easier said then done just move on. And in the future don't sleep with a guy on the second date. I know it sounds preachy but it really is a big turn off for a lot of guys. They'll either think you're a slut (not saying you are) or they won't want anything to do with you because they got what they wanted.0