This friend of a friend that I've only met once has been messaging me for a few weeks now, I thought it was a bit weird but just sort of went with it. Now he wants to hang out sometime but I'm not too keen, is there a nice way to let him down? I mean I don't exactly know him / like him plus he has a girlfriend. Should I just say I'm really busy at the moment? Help!
Thanks for all the advice, in the end, my first message said I would be really busy for a while with exams coming up and all (not a lie and I was hoping he'd get the hint) but when he replied asking about after exams I decided to be honest and say while I don't mind messaging you, I don't really hang out with guys in person (which is true) because I don't really approve of it in high school (there's so much else to focus on) and he seemed to understand :)
Don't lie. I would not say you are busy at the moment because he will take that as "Just wait a few days and ask her again". Just be honest are say I am really flattered but I am not interested in a relationship but we can be friends if you want.
Top excuses : I'm not into guys I'm have to do my homework I'm pissed off I'm psycho I'm sorry I'm sleeping I'm not well And the best one " I'm too busy " it's best bc it will tell him that you aren't interested 😶?