Today I found out one of my close friends is getting with my ex boyfriend, we only broke up two weeks ago and went out for almost 4 months!!
honestly I'm more bothered by her doing this than him because I broke up with him. I can see why she's likes him because he is really nice , funny and attractive and stuff, but she didn't even tell me I found out from somebody that gets my school bus. I feel like she has kind of manipulated him as he went to talk to her AS A FRIEND for support after we broke up, and now they're getting together!!! ... okay I now realise I'm probably not fully over him, is it normal to be so bothered by this? I told her it was okay and they would be cute together because obviously i didn't want I be mean or anything, she then said that him an I were cute together which makes me miss him ughhh :/// She told me all of his friends said that I was better than her (idk if that means I'm nicer or prettier or whatever, she is pretty well known for gossiping and stuff and doesn't have a great reputation) is it just me that thinks it's wrong for her to do this or should I get over it?
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She should definitely have talked to you about it first. Not because she needs your permission or anything, but because it's the nice and friendly thing to. As a heads up. But now you've talked it out so there's no point in holding a grudge over it. You made your bed. If you still have feelings for him, you shouldn't have broken up with him. It's something you should think long and hard about, unless breaking up is the obvious choice (in case of cheating for example).
Not much else you can do at this point except move on.1