We've been talking and hanging out for a few weeks. We definitely like each other but she has said some confusing things like "I'm a free spirit", "I don't do hook-ups or the girlfriend thing. I like having no attachments,"... And we've slept together.
Any ideas about what is going on in this girls head?
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She doesn't want to be tied down.
You know how sometimes guys will sleep with girls but then not want to be in a committed relationship with them? Girls do that too. She is saying that you are a cool and attractive guy and that she enjoys your company. She is also saying that she is to busy with her own life at the moment to try to add you in. As long as you aren't interfering with her life/goals then she will keep you around. As soon as you get in the way though, she's gone.
Second thing it could be is that she has been hurt before and wants someone to try harder to get let in. Still though she doesn't want a guy that is going to be controlling of her. She wants to be her own person and not have to worry about how her decisions in life will affect you.5