Me and my girlfriend got into a pretty hefty argument last night. It really escalted and she began to scratch me and hit me so i pushed her to the floor. When i did that all of a sudden her tone changed and she was like "ok please don't hurt me, i'm sorry". I just pushed her, i did not do anything to hit her. I'am not happy with what i did regardless.
So before she left last night she said sorry for what she did and i said sorry for pushing her. She seemed pretty sympathetic. Today she won't answer her phone or texts. We've been together for 3 years and we barely argue but this was a big one. Would you girls stay with a guy who done this (take my sitiation into account)? I'am just worried cause she's not answering her phone
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I've had a past relationship where an argument has gotten out of hand like this. Its not right for her to put hands on you and I commend you for not hitting her back. It takes a lot of self control to not do it and I understand that you do feel bad for it, but she is playing the victim when she was the first to strike. All in all this isn't a healthy relationship, I would give yourself, not her, some time to truly evaluate the relationship, then try to talk to her when things are cooled down. Even if you guys haven't argued like this, she still put her hands on you.4
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