I am not trying to generalize or be an ass-hat here. Don't get me wrong... there are a lot of women out there that know a good man when they see one... but lately... I've been hearing stories (from women) about some of the men they were dating... and it's like... really?
Lately... when I've been talking to and meeting women, I ask them about their last relationship and it is ALWAYS the same:
-He cheated on me with another woman
-He had a sidechick and had a baby with her
-He cheated on me with my best friend
-He was verbally and emotionally abusive
How do women end up with men like this? And why is it always the same stories?
Most Helpful Girl
How are you supposed to know a guy is going to cheat on you, unless he has done it before and it's a well known fact?
How are you supposed to know a guy will verbally or physically abuse you when he acts all sweet and innocent at first? Do you really think guys approach girls, slap them in the face and the girl is all like OH SWOON HE HIT ME! Of course not. Abusers fake a good persona until they've trapped you. Then they slowly warm you up to the abuse with only small signs, signs that you can brush off or make up excuses for. Then it goes to hell from there, in small steps. Abusers wouldn't successfully be able to trap and abuse someone if they weren't fake as shit at first.
Girls end up with the wrong guys because these guys lie, fake and make shit up to make you like them. Then when you like them and it's too late, they will start showing their true selves.
Girls aren't stupid for falling for assholes. Assholes are just good manipulators. Anyone can be manipulated and it's not the girls' fault.2
Most Helpful Guy
it is because women have no true sense of value anymore. i blame feminism for it. women were well respected half a century ago, and ofcourse they have the same rights as we do, they should be able to vote, or study etc.. but it has gone to far. women are constantly being told that they can handle the world, no they can't, neither can men ! women feel so powerful these days, just check how serial killers get letters from female fans, and those aren't desperate girls either, no good looking ones as well. its because they feel powerful if they are in a relationship with an abusive agressive men, they feel like if they can controll an inidividual like that, that they are more powerful. but they never can, eventually the facade will come down and these guys take over. i've been dating 4 girls, 3 of them single moms. i have never seen that many single mothers and all 3 the fathers were either liars , cheaters, criminals or selfish pricks. so far i haven't crossed a decent women, im now seeing a good looking girl , but i dont know. even she acts weird in my opinion, 2 days ago we had oral sex, i bourhgt her home, she texts me she had a good time, and 4 hours later, in the middle of the night she would be commenting other guys their pictures on how she liked those pictures and stuff. it never crossed my mind to start texting other girls. i just need a girl who respects me, and the things i do for her. and trust me i can stand up for myself, and i would even stand up for my girlfriend or my family. and maybe im not the typical agressive guy, but if you touch the people i care about, dont even remotly think i will let you get away with it, but im not the type of guy whos is going to cheat to his girl.4