How can i lose my fear of going up to girls and not freak them out? I have a speech problem (stuttering) that keeps me from just going up to girls like a normal person would. I think that's what is keeping me from getting girls as well. I'm not good looking, but if I spoke to them well maybe I can attract them with my personality. Any advice?
Most Helpful Girl
You've got to realize, see first-hand that approaching girls doesn't have to be that intimidating. I once read this great tip that said a good way to get over such fears is to sort of 'start small'. Practice 'approaching' girls you're not really interested in, just approach them on a platonic level. As you get more comfortable with the overall issue of chatting up strangers, you can slowly start moving towards approaching girls you don't know who you happen to see potential in. The more you succeed, the less nervous you'll eventually become. :)1
Most Helpful Guy
ok first of all change your appearance, shave of that mustache, and your hair, try a buzzcut , work on your eyebrows a bit and you look completely different. not as a gay point of view but i agree , now, you look like crap, you look average. you have to stand out, work out, be adventurous. dress casual. you see i use my facial hair in my advantage i try out a lot of different looks, different haircuts, new clothes time to time, and the stuttering, i think it takes even more courage to talk to a girl when you have that problem then some guy who doesn't. just be confident and when you talk to a girl, yes you get rejected often , but somewhere along the line is a girl who won't reject you. and like the girl says down below , she is right if she doesn't respect you for trying, she isn't worth it.0