so say you two were talking online. you start to feel a connection and then ask him for an emailed picture. you find out he's kinda fat. would you stop talking to him? not fat fat, but still fat. you know?
I wouldn't care and would still seek romance with him.
I would still be friends with him.
I would stop talking to him.
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
keep in mind that he can just work the weight off. I'm sure he'll do that with the right motivation and encouragement from a girl he likes. or just stay friends and watch another girl help him lose the weight and lose him to someone else.
I'd be friends with him, but I'll be honest, I don't know if I'd pursue things romantically. It depends. I'd have to see him in person too. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that I definitely won't date him, but I've never exactly wanted to be with someone who was overweight by too much. I'd like someone who was at a healthy weight. It doesn't mean they are ruled out completely.