Yes, I'm chubby. I've already lost weight but I have 20 pounds to go before normal weight. I'm recovering from an eating disorder. I'm trying to slowly get more healthy without it turning into an obsession. I also do workout. I'm not fat. I'm tall and weight is pretty evenly distributed so people say I hardly look overweight. But I know being fit is more attractive. I've never been on a date. I was wondering if I should lose weight first and then try dating or should I just try now? Is being chubby complete dealbreaker?
I can find lots of different body types attractive, so sure. I know it's cliche or whatever, but I don't fall in love with a person's body, and for whatever reason I've never had narrow parameters for attraction.
Chubby or even overweight girls have never been a problem for me. I have been with many big women and have had many wonderful experiences, and from the way I see things if you are attracted to me and can accept me for the way I am, then I am completely willing to do the same for you. If you are a nice person and nice to me and attracted to me are more important factors to me than what the scale might or might not say. Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors.
Of course!! Most guys would date a chubby girl. I prefer skinny, but a lovely personality is way more important. To spent a life time with a lady requires a good personality, when looks are way down on the list.
Kudos for going in the right direction with your weight! I just can't see you having any problems!
No physical feature is an automatic deal breaker (he says but I suppose certain extreme physical impairments might be, but I've not come across them in person yet).
And a little chubbiness isn't even really a negative. People have different prefferences in figure. Some prefer bigger, some smaller, some different shapes in between. Personally I think any figure can work if the lass has the right attitude to carry it. It's your body. It's as sexy and as gorgeous as YOU think it is. A little confidence will do far more for your physical attractiveness than loosing weight, but if loosing weight is how you find that confidence, crack on.
This isn't to say that nervous types can't be attractive... I actually tend to be drawn to introverts... but a little body confidence is never a bad thing.
Not all a deal breaker. Most guys won't mind. And I say just start dating.
Understand that what men find attractive is being proportional. Weight is less important. If you wanna know more about this Google "waste hip ratio".
As a tip. I hate dieting and I don't believe in them. I believe in living healthy life style, eating healthy and working out. So when you reached your goal keep on living a healthy lifestyle, eating healthy and exercising.
Also never feel you should lose weight. You're fine as you are. And if you wanna lose weight do it because you want to and not because someone or same magazine told you so.
people come in all sizes and shapes and their shape and size is a key factor in making them look unique. So no matter how thin or think you are, unless it causes healtg problems, you're perfectly fine. There are guys like me who have a thing for chubby girls so for me a little chubbiness is good, 'cause we have more of the girl to love😜 and it's upto you when you want to go for dates. Because more than your appearance, your confidence plays a vital role. So if you feel confident in the weight you are, go for it. And no haha, not at all, it's never a deal breaker.
post pics without face. fat is generally disaster, chubby is rarely acceptable, mostly if she has cute face, but again, that's rarity. For a woman it's crucial to look normal, otherwise she's forced to date ugly/fat people.
Honestly, your attitude and the fact that you sound hardworking sounds much more attractive than any amount of unattractive a bit of extra weight might make you. We are our own worse critics, and I think men are a lot more forgiving than we may give them credit for. Just keep working on being healthy and at the weight that makes you the most comfortable in your skin :)
I would and I personally prefer chubbier people over really buff people, lots of muscles and very defined abs are kind of gross and a turn off to me. I like when they have a flat tummy or are kind of chubby. All of my exes, male and female were skinny or chubby, none of them were athletic at all haha
I think there's nothing wrong being chubby when you are ill or you have hormonal imbalance or something like this. I always eat healthy food, fruit and veggies. I work out every day to keep my body healthy. I feel really better now. I am proud of my healthy body. Only disadvantage is that you loose boobs weight. I went from C to B. But it's not bad because I know that guy who loves me, doesn't love me for boobs but for other more important qualities.