Im kind of curious how often people actually get asked out and how often people actually go on those dates. Im not talking about hooking up kind of thing but a genuine real date. I feel like I don't get asked out that much, but many guys that have I was not interested in. I only went out with three guys in my whole life and two of them became serious boyfriends. I feel like that is not a lot for a 22 year old or am I wrong? I just feel the media (tv and movies) portrays it like girls and guys date so often, and I'm wondering if that is actually true? I know I am good looking, but Im starting to think its my personality that doesn't attract enough guys and thats why I don't get asked out all the time. I have a friend who now is in a very serious relationship with a guy where they could potentially get married, but she used to have a guy talking to her all the time and even sometimes multiple guys at once. I feel like she never didn't have a guy talking to her. Maybe I don't get out enough. I don't know what it is. I feel like what has happened with my past two relationships was that I was just so tired of not being asked out or not having a boyfriend that since someone finally asked me out and showed interest I jumped at the chance to finally have a boyfriend even though there were red flags in the relationships. It was just like yay finally someone likes me. I always felt like if multiple guys were talking to me and showed me interest it would be easier to choose the right one.
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I never get asked out, and I very very rarely go out on dates. The last date I went on was 2 Mondays ago, and that was my first date since May xD
I don't come from a place that goes out on dates, at least not when I was there, so this is kinda new to me.0