6 days? well id definitely decline but id still keep talking to him. i wouldn't just brush someone off straight away because of that. only time i can imagine myself getting pissed off would be if he kept persisting to see me every few days after that.
I'd say just go for it sooner rather than later. I usually wait until she seems comfortable with me which shouldn't take more than a few days. Either she's interested in actually meeting you or she's not, and i doubt trying to text with her for weeks is going to change that too much. Think about it like this: she responded to your advances on a DATING website, she gave you her number knowing what your intentions were (DATING), she's still talking to you, odds are she's interested in meeting you. Not only that but it is highly highly unlikely that's she's just going to up and stop talking to you just because you asked her out too early
In my experience, about a week of online chatting is perfect. Enough time to establish a bit of compatibility but not too long so that the initial online spark is lost. Any longer, you run the risk of being relegated to the dreaded "friendzone." You also run the risk that someone else may be talking to her as well and may make a move.
I have lost interest in guys who never suggest a meet up. It's a waste of time to endlessly chat. Around one week is enough time for me to know I am interested in meeting.
Suggest a safe date, like a lunch meeting.
It's no different than meeting someone in a coffee shop and asking them out; in fact, you know the online person a little better than the random stranger.
Go for it. If she likes you I bet a cyber dollar she agrees to meet.
There's a progression. You'll want to transition from Internet/text-only to phone or (preferably) video chat. If you want to arrange a date, pick something both low-key and public, like a coffee shop. Somewhere both comfortable and safe. Treat it as no more than what it is - a first date.
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