So I'm hanging out with this guy that I've been crushing on forever. Guys, what are some tips you can give me so I don't mess this up? I don't want to bore him. I feel like I've done it in the past. Also we've been texting, how can I jazz them up without coming on too strong?
Most Helpful Guy
Be yourself and have fun. If he doesn't have much of a plan for the night (shame on him) suggest something fun and interactive so you both have fun and something to talk/laugh about later. Like I went and shot pool with a first date once. That way I could be closer to her and break the touch barrier as we were walking around each other.
If you really like this guy you will have fun and not bore him. Remember he asked you out cause he wants to be with you and know more about you. You aren't going to be boring to him.1
Most Helpful Girl
Be yourself, it sounds cliche but it works. Don't be rigid and stiff and laugh a little. Guys like to see positive, happy girls. Don't let him do anything you don't want him to and just relax. It may seem stressful but one day you may look back on this and realize you had nothing to worry about. Good Luck!! Also, if you think conversation may grow stale, educate yourself on current events and popular music. Find out what things he likes, bands, movies, etc and read up on them or watch them, that way you can say "Hey what do you think of this persons new song or album" or "What do you think was the best part of this movie". Hope everything works out!3