I started seeing this new guy (Todd) who's liked me for quite some time. Since we have mutual friends we've kinda known each other for a while. Well we finally went out a few days ago and really hit if off. Spent the night together last night and both had a great time. After he left sent me the sweetest text telling me how im his girl now. Then my mother calls (who's known him also prior to our hooking up) and asks me for his work number to give her neighbors friend who needs to inquire about his services (he does plumbing). SO I give her his number and then later that day my mother calls and says to me, "Todd is so sweet, I really like him! You want me to tell you the nice thing he said about you?" of course I did so she proceeds to tell me, "Well after leaving the gal who I refered him to's house, he texts to tell me, "oh my god Connie, that girl you referred me to was gorgeous! If I didn't like your daughter so much... but then again, your daughters gorgeous too!" Now ladies this is where I really need your help. Would what he said have bothered you (about the referal being gorgeous) because it really bothered me! My mother just said I was overreacting but I think it was totally innapproriate of him! And yes bothered me very much!! What do you think? Could this be just an example of how us men and women are different (cuz i know no woman would do this!) or was he totally out of line? Please be honest! Oh and something else to consider is the possibility that he did this knowing my mother would (more than likely) relay it back to me just to see my reaction and see how much I might like him by how jealous Id get - cuz i kinda played hard to get with him in the beginning. Im not sure what his intentions were but just hearing how he thought the woman so gorgeous (regardless how in to me he claims to be) just really struck my nerve! So guys and gal's please give me your thoughts... am I being ridiculous? Should I just blow it off? thanks! Also girls if it would bother you, what would you do about it? Blow it off or bring it up to him? BTW- we're bothe the same age - in our early thirties.
- He shouldn't have mentioned the chick being so gorgeous, totally innappropriate!60% (3)33% (1)50% (4)Vote
- He said this just to see how you'd react to it - and only because he likes you, so let it go!0% (0)33% (1)12% (1)Vote
- What a twerp dirtbag! Dump this potential cheater without giving him another thought!0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Give him a break! As guys will always notice hot chicks! You're reading too much into it. He did say you were gorgeous too! So relax!20% (1)34% (1)25% (2)Vote
- Tell him how it made you feel. A nice guy would understand and never do it again.20% (1)0% (0)13% (1)Vote