When I like a girl I used to (and sometimes still do) get very shy around her (I know it sucks). I'm the type of guy that takes everything head on and I will pursue a girl until I'm rejected or she is taken. I actually am relieved when I'm rejected because I hate it when girls aren't straight forward about it, and I don't want to waste my time or make her uncomfortable. After my last relationship I just stopped giving a shit and now if I'm interested I make it pretty damn obvious. I go out of my way to talk to her and be friendly, I act super outgoing, I friend her on Facebook, and I always laugh at her jokes (not forcefully). I try not to go overboard and make myself look like a creep, but I definitely make it obvious that she's caught my attention. I've done all of this with a girl that I'm currently interested in, and I messaged her on Facebook to make arrangements about a study session that we were going to start, but she hasn't replied. From the looks of it she rarely ever goes on facebook, and it's only been 40 minutes since I messaged her, but I'm starting to wonder if I came on too strong.
Most Helpful Girl
You are coming across as too pushy and she is not interested.0
Most Helpful Guy
Im not sure but you are definitely too needy if you're writing something like this after only 40 minutes...0