So i've dated this guy pretty seriously for about two months, shared a lot of our life experiences and I thought i got to a point where he trusted me. Then i got sick and had to move to my parents house for the next two months (one hour drive away). He texted me every single day asking how I was and we always made playful jokes, until mid September he stopped texting at all. I started to iniciate conversations but he wouldn't show the same interest in keeping it up, so we've not had any form of communication for two weeks. Last week i was finally able to move back to my apartment and texted him about getting coffee and giving him his birthday present (on the eve of his birthday) he said he'd be too busy and we should schedule for next week. So last week we agreed to meet on Wednesday and on that day he texted me about having a mass for his departed godfather (the dates matched the facts there) and said we should meet this Sunday (today) or Monday. I asked: what about Thursday and he said it was impossible, but late afternoon Friday we could meet. On Friday i texted him again asking a time and place, and again he said we should meet Sunday because it would be more convenient. So... All this postponing is driving me insane, not sure if i can handle it for much longer but i really wanted to give him the bloody gift that i handmade, dont want the thing lying around to keep reminding me of him. I have a really strong feeling he is going to cancel again today, the thing is i really liked him until he started ignoring me. He's been two years without a girlfriend after dating her for two and a half years only to discover she lied to him about lots of facts in her life, thats why they broke up. I can't stop thinking that maybe he thinks i lied about being really sick even though i sent him several photos at the hospital... Adding the fact that he really doesn't know me just after two months of dating, but i want it to continue... I dont know what to do if he cancels today..
Guy is ghosting me?
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