Seriously, it's like every guy I see goes to a girl he's into and, even if they don't date, they at least hook up, and almost every guy I know has hooked up at least once. It's so fucking easy for them, I don't get it. In fact, the only guys that doesn't happen to are my friends, who are seemingly always rejected like I am. I'd say it's because of race, considering most of my friends are black or Hispanic and my school is mostly white, but, it can't be, because one of my friends is a white dude who's actually pretty muscular and good looking, but, then again, he's short, so, doesn't count, I guess. So, yeah, why is it so easy for other guys? I've had girls like me, I guess, but, I usually wasn't into them or got rejected after the first date, in fact, I've only ever been on two real dates, with the same girl, and they were months apart, and she turned me down anyway. There is one girl that likes me now, but, fuck it, hard as I try I'm just not into her and never will be.
Most Helpful Girl
Honey, you're young. You have plenty of time.
Are you comfortable around women? Are you comfortable with yourself?
Many friends of mine didn't date until after high school. It's not abnormal to be single that entire time.
Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself to have a girlfriend? What would having a girlfriend say about yourself? How do you think it would change you?
I have found, in my own life, that when I felt that I didn't need a romantic partner and that I was satisfied with my life as it was, that it was much easier to meet someone. If you're happy, people will want to be around you.1
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't know why it's so easy.
I haven't had any girls say they're interested in me though, and I've never been on a real date so it's much harder for me.0