You always hear women in movies say and the. We stayed up all night talking. My boyfriend and I have never and will never spend hours continuously chatting. Not to say we don't have conversations about what city we would live in if not here, politics and pasts or what not but he isn't a big talker.
But it we go on long walks and say almost nothing. I'm comfortable with our silence but at the same time it makes me wonder what bonds us. Sometimes I fear it is the sex and we are just kidding ourselves. But then others we'll both look at each other and know what the other is about to say and say it at the same time.
Do do you always have a lot to talk about with your other?
Most Helpful Guy
I think if two people can't really share with each other in a relationship it's a bad sign. It's not like people who can share will automatically have a successful relationship but I strongly believe people need to have a bond of communication. Without that the relationship feels more and more distant if people aren't completely comfortable sharing. Being uncomfortable talking or not having stuff to say can make you question the relationship and feel like you're not right for each other. It can also build resentment.0
Most Helpful Girl
When I'm in a relationship I do, I can't imagine a relationship where I couldn't talk a lot with my partner. But I don't like only me doing the talking, I love being with someone that likes to exchanged points of view about a variety of things. So I understand how you feel.
Do you know if he behaves like this with everyone or just with you? Because maybe he's a very quiet person.0