I met a guy online on Tinder (yeah i know, not the best start) I have never been intested in that app b/c of the reputation for hook-ups only, but I gave it a shot and matched with this guy. He messaged me and within days asked for my number, a day later after texting, he invited me over for dinner. I was ecstatic since the guy is super cute and totally my type. I am 28 and he is 34, anyway so on my tinder profile I clearly stated that I am a single mom in my bio. I assumed he had read it and I showed up to the date assuming he already knew, well he didn't. He asked me if I had roommates, etc and I said no, that I lived alone with my daughter, then proceeded to ask him if he had actually read my bio and he said no, bc he was impressed by my pictures alone. He is really attracted to me since I am a Latina and he is American, it also helps to note here that I am pretty hot (not conceited just a fact).
I thought our date will go sour once he found out I had a daughter and just kinda relaxed and figured I could at least make a friend out of this, but no, he asked me questions about my daughter, including whether her father was involved (which he is not), and how he can't wait to become a father and have kids. Long story short, we had a great time and then started watching tv and I thought about leaving since I figured the being a mom thing turned him off, he tried to make a move and put his arm around me but I kinda did not know how to react so he stopped, then later we both got cold and got a blanket, eventually leading up to cuddling, it felt so good! We cuddled not like strangers on a first date but like as if we had known each other for a while and just laid there watching tv while he caressed my hair and face and eventually started holding my hand. Yes, we eventually felt so comfortable with each other, it lead to very sweet and slow touching to some really nice and comfortable sex.
- Would you date a single mom if she was attractive and financially independent?Vote A
- Yes or NoVote B
Anyway I planned to leave right after and he suggested we cuddle again before I left, so I did b/c I really wanted to, he held me and then fell asleep, I kept trying to leave, but he kept holding me close, finally I slipped out and by then it was too late to leave so I just left him on the couch and I went to
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You know, the fact that a guy is only into sex doesn't mean that they are necessarily assholes. They can want intimacy too. Wanting sex does not mean you are selfish. He could be a good lover while still being with you with sex. It seems at least that he reached to you with the idea of having sex. He can always change his mind. If you communicate with him again and you see he's not interested, you'll know.0
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