i really like this girl. we get along really good and when we are together its mostly playful and fun but i dont think i am good boyfriend material. i am sweet to them and stuff but i never want to do boyfriend girlfriend things.
i dont like going out to eat, i dont like going to parties or to weddings her family get togethers etc. i get nervous thinking about meeting her friends and family. basicly im introverted. i want the love part of relationship but i dont feel like i will ever be comfortable doing these things. should i explain this to her?
Most Helpful Girl
Relationships are about compromising. If you can't compromise then you don't really want a relationship, you want all the benefits of one but you don't really WANT one. If you really wanted to be with this girl, you wouldn't mind meeting her friends/family every once in a while, you wouldn't mind doing stuff she likes, such as going out to eat. Because the important part here is that you're doing something with her, you're BEING with her. Likewise, she shouldn't expect you to want to come with her every single time. It's give and take.1
Most Helpful Guy
Relationships aren't all about what you don't or do want to do. They are a compromise because 2 people won't agree all the time. Basically it's okay that you're different but you can't be steadfast in only what you want to do. You should be happy sharing some things with her even if it isn't your first choice of what to do. Compromise and understanding make you a good boyfriend.0