You should learn to love yourself before you go searching for love somewhere else. How can you expect a woman to love you if you don't even love yourself or think of yourself as worthy? You have to accept yourself and appreciate what you have to offer before you get other people to appreciate it.
You have it backwards. How can you expect someone to love you, when even you don't love you? Work on being the best you you can be. Build up a sense of self worth and you have a start. If you are looking for a woman to fix you, then you will remain broken.
Because no woman can love a guy who doesn't love himself.
You have to build yourself up and not rely on other people for your self worth because you will ALWAYS be disappointed, and that isn't because you aren't good enough, it's because most people won't get past the initial first impression of a person to get to know how amazing you could potentially be. Be the person you would admire and people will find a reason to get past first impressions.
ladies like men who aren't overly insecure, by loving yourself you'll find a lot more women are attracted to you, confidence is a really good attribute, but over confidence isn't good either.. just be comfortable with who you are and stop worrying about what others think.
Dude, that's how I feel but in reverse with genders. But truth is, confidence is key. When you love yourself, people will see that, women will see that and they will start loving you too. It's all about perception.
Rephrase it, how can a woman love you if you don't love yourself?
Being happy with yourself first is best, you aren't projecting or relying on them for your happiness. This helps with a healthy relationship with another. Find the positives in your life... things you are good at, something unique about you, maybe you have really nice eyes, etc. etc. When you are positive, you attract more people. Sometimes it takes some searching, but you can find someone that loves you for you.
Quit throwing your pity party and get your ass in gear. Women don't like guys that are so negative and depressing. Tell yourself that you don't need ANYONE to make you happy. Once you are accepting of yourself and once you stand proud with your head held high and you show the world that you don't need anyone in order to love yourself then the women will come. Work on yourself while you are single and use that time to really get to know yourself.
Love can only come from within bro. I know this from personal experience. You can't get self worth from another person. If you don't have that yourself before entering into a relationship you won't have a successful or balanced relationship.
Join the club, women don't like me either. Women don't control if you love yourself or not though (and you shouldn't let them). That is something you have to make happen. And if you do want to find a woman someday, you have to learn to love and except yourself first. Be yourself, be different, and find things that you like to do and do what your good at doing. And don't say that your not good at anything because everyone is good at something, and has their own talent.
Love yourself, and avoid the bs that comes with dating at your age. You have a lot of time to find that special someone.
A mate/spouse/partner does not define you nor do they define your happiness. Enjoy you and enjoy your company genuinely, learn that life is short and you can rely on you and then you will have the confidence to live fully.
How can a woman love you if don't love yourself at least a bit?