I'm asking this because my best friend who's absolutely gorgeous and has all the guys attention, recently started dating a below average really nice guy. He has been madly in love with her for the past 2 years and she didn't give him much attention and she was seing other very handsome men (she friend zoned him).
But somehow his peristence payed off and she started liking him...
I personnaly wouldn't stand it, if I don't feel it from the first few minutes, chances are it will never change.
I'm not shallow but I hate overally persistent people. What about you?
Most Helpful Guy
He sounds like a great guy :) <3
persistence can pay off (rarely), but its how you go about your persistence,
a persistent person can easily turn into a pest...
I would like to say i dont hate persistent people, but i kind of do, its ironic because i am persistent at times :p1
Most Helpful Girl
I agree with you it really depends on the person. This guy was lucky that his persistance paid off. She decided to date this guy and he's very lucky. I would say persistance does pay off, but you have to play your cards right.
I don't like it when people bug me constantly about stuff. But if the guy came to me or was flirting with me over a year or so periodically then I would not get annoyed. It would be the everyday flirting even after I said I wasn't interested that would bug me.
However, if I liked the guy I would be thrilled :)2