Was this really called for? We've only been talking since the beginning of this month, we just met. We had an argument on the phone earlier about him telling me that some girl he knew had a nice ass. I told him I was done with him and didn't deserve this disrespect and then he told me he hopes I die in a car crash and hung up on me. I think he has a temper, how could he say this to me and we just met? He's 21 if that makes a difference?
I guess he wasn't really interested in you, but you certainly overreacted as well. Telling someone you're done with them at the first glance of a conflict is typically either used for emotional abuse, or is just proof of not very mature conflict handling.
He probably triggered you to have a reason to make you break it off with him.
Doesn't make a difference, just makes him less remorseful and less comprehensive of another's feelings. If he cared how either comment made you feel, he wouldn't have said it. Unless of course he's the type (like me) that has to hurt you ten times harder when he feels hurt. Either way, not a situation you'll want around for long. And I don't think you wanna see how far that temper can go. Even verbal abuse can be extremely traumatizing.
no thats fucked up. the fact that he's saying that to you and you just met shows the type of person he is. shitty. lol. he's a complete idiot. thats so uncalled for and i'd just leave it as is and move the fuck on. that's so sad and pathetic. i would never wish that upon anybody.