I am basically looking for a wife. I dont want a girl who is a friend, I dont want a girlfriend, I want a wife. Dating to me is childish and it just seems stupid taking a bunch of girls out to dinner or on these stupid dates and trying to be as funny as possible to impress her, thats childish and I am pretty tired of lying to women to get them to date me (I pretend I am funny because all women want funny guys), I also hate lying to them about wanting a casual relationships. I really dont, in fact if there wasn't the possibility of marriage I wouldn't even talk to the woman, I dont deal with that crap. I would prefer to court women in a tasteful way, but that is frowned upon now so I have to pretend to like the whole dating thing, even though I actually despise it. I just want a wife, who is nice looking, good at cooking, and compatibile with my personality. At my college I haven't met anyone who has caught my eye, who is also interested in me, and the girls interested in me are either looking for sex, casual relationships, or I am not interested in. If I go to the bars, all the girls are just looking for casual sex and hookups. I have gone to a couple churches but haven't met any girls I like who are interested in me. I wish there was just a button I could press to get a wife so that I can check that off my list of things I need to do, but I have to go through this long freaking process. Is there anyway to meet girls interested in long term relationships?
Most Helpful Girl
In a volunteering or club or an activity that allows you to meet new people!0
Most Helpful Guy
How about finishing your education and establishing who you are first? Maybe get a realistic view of yourself and... a job perhaps, before you turn your eye on someone "attractive who can cook"0