I LOVE my boyfriend so fucking much i want to spend ALLL the time with him. As soon as we turn 18 he wants to marry me. He tells me that all the time. I dumped him once because there was a rumour going around that he was staring at another girls ass and im not ok with that. And he attempted suicide because he said he couldnt be without me. He failed thank god. But later I found out he wasn't and my best friend was jeaulous of our relationship and tried to break us up. We text 24/7 sometimes it honestly feels like he's more into me than I am him him. But I still love him so much. we have been dating for almost a year. I know he's not like one of those guys who will use a girl for sex because he knows if im not ok with it then he won't ask. I have never ever in my life felt this way about a guy. But I always read stuff on the internet about guys cheating and 70% of guys cheated on their wives. And that freaks me out so much. Especially since those guys chose to marry there wives but then they cheated on them. Im so scared he will cheat on me. He promised me he would never ever dump me or cheat on me. He also goes to a different high school which makes it easier for him to cheat. I actually planned on being single for my whole life until I met him. Should I stop worrying? Or do you think he will?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, everything seems to going so good for you, these are very good signs and your guy seems to love you so much. I can understand your fears and concerns and yes it's not invalid, it's fully justified, but then you must understand that not all men will cheat, not everyone has a desire to cheat, only those men will cheat who have always had the desire to cheat, those who are emotionally greedy meaning they are never satisfied with what they have they always want more ( psychologically speaking).
I don't know how your guy is but if your guy is like this:
1. If he never flirts with other women.
2. He doesn't have a wandering eye. He has eyes only for you.
3. With others he is really uptight, unavailable but with you he is totally relaxed and available.
4. Does he have good morals, values and does he live up to them.
Hence if your guys is like the way I have mentioned above in points, then it's just impossible that your guy will cheat on you, I am confident about that, why? because people who have high morals, values will definitely not do something like cheating. No.
However that's the risk that comes along with relationships/marriage and that's something you need to decide for yourself.
Lastly to tell you again, NO, not all men cheat, not all men have it in their blood to cheat. I'll give you a link, another post from this site, it's not related to your post, but it's related to cheating.
Please read my reply to that question. Hopefully that will give you some confidence in your guy.0
Most Helpful Girl
For one you're crazy and two he's crazy. Two crazy people don't need to be together. You have an extremely irrational fear of being hurt and have a horrible amount of distrust in men. Do all women cheat? Are all women whores? No? Then the same applies to guys. The fact that this is even a question is insane and you seriously don't need to be in a relationship if you're so terrified of love at your age, that's not normal. And your boyfriend doesn't need to be with anyone either. He was seriously going to kill himself in the name of love? As romantic as that might sound to you he's extremely unstable and needs mental evaluation because what the actual fuck? Work on yourself and learn that if you get your heart broken you're gonna get over it and it's not the end of the world. Your under 18 for goodness sakes!! You've got like 70 years of life left on this earth and you're going to waste it away being afraid of your heart because of someone stupid teen boy that can hardly tell his left from his right? I say you grow a pair and take life head on! Stop being scared of being happy!4