I have had my heart broken twice by my boyfriend :( both times were cheating
i am in 9th grade and he's in 7th grade I don't know what to do... I mean my brain is telling me that I should break up with him. But yet I still have feeling for him. All I can think about is all the good times we had together.
Does it sound desperate to still want him?
Because that's what my friends say...
Most Helpful Guy
Do this mean you are in love? No. You just like him. It's perfectly normal to still like and have feelings for someone that you were in a relationship with. But the strong are able to move on and do what is best for themselves. What is best for yourself is to move on. The fact that you still have feelings doesn't mean you're desperate. It means that your feelings were and still are genuine. A persons feelings doesn't just go away. If they did, then they didn't truly like the person in the first place. Yes, you want him, but move on. He cheated on you twice. If you go back to him he will continue to cheat on you. And why wouldn't he? I mean, he's cheating and you're still staying around. There is no consequence for his action. You're letting him get away with it by going back to him. So, move on.11
Most Helpful Girl
You're not stupid or desperate for having feelings for him still. You obviously like him and you have been with him for some time. I would say it's pretty normal to still have feelings for a guy even though things may not be going well.
You're boyfriend is cheating on your and that's not okay. You deserve to be happy and with a guy who is going to be good to you.
I think you need to lean on your friends and try to keep busy. There will be other guys, trust me! You are so young and you have a long life ahead of you. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you right :)6