Im 23 and i am STILL a virgin by CHOICE. I will NOT give it up if the guy just wants to use me, he kept saying i dont believe you, you probably have diseases and cursed at me many times for saying no. He thought i was a slut for not opening up to him about my life and he thought i was a lowlife , i think he was pissing me of on purpose and wanted to know why i rejected him and deep down he knew i was a virgin but he didn't deserve me after cursing me out like that or maybe he was scared to fall in love. What was his problem? i really miss him but he refused to see me or speak to me,
Most Helpful Guy
I can say something about this guy but first let me tell you about life. Often people try to gain power over you by using "reverse psychology". For example, I had a crush on a woman but she wanted to play games with me and hide the fact that she had a crush on me too. I walked away from her and she texted me "You can walk away. It's your decision".
This was a display of two people trying to gain power over the other. Both of us trying to portrait that "I don't care" attitude while we both wanted to stay and do something totally different. These tactics are used a lot by people.
This guy was doing something like that to you. JUst look at what he said. How can you be a slut (I hate that term by the way) for not having sex? Why would he want to have sex with a girl with diseases? Why would he want sex with a lowlife?
He was also trying to gain power over you by using "Reverse psychology". BUt also at the same time making the situation easier by saying stuff that won't hurt his ego too much. I can't tell you how many guys I have seen trying to get with a girl and then when she doesn't want sex with him he will say something to himself and other people "Aah, she's a whore anyway". Yes, this is absolutely ridiculous behavior.
of these guys.
Don't be with guys like this. Don't even be friends with guys like this. These are also the guys that spread a lot of rumors.0
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds petty and immature. Some men do that when they feel that they have invested or wasted enough time and you have not given into them. He just wanted sex from you and thats all. I was in a very identical situation to which the guy was so pissed he told me to never speak to him or his family again. Well, did I feel bad? No. Do I still have my virginity? Yes. Its time you moved on and forget him. There are plenty of better guys out there who have soo much more to offer.
Ps. It is never ok for a guy or a woman to disrespect someone they love. Just because he cursed you, he doesn't deserve to be your friend, Break this tie and move on. You are worth much more.0