Im 23 and i am STILL a virgin by CHOICE. I will NOT give it up if the guy just wants to use me, he kept saying i dont believe you, you probably have diseases and cursed at me many times for saying no. He thought i was a slut for not opening up to him about my life and he thought i was a lowlife , i think he was pissing me of on purpose and wanted to know why i rejected him and deep down he knew i was a virgin but he didn't deserve me after cursing me out like that or maybe he was scared to fall in love. What was his problem? i really miss him but he refused to see me or speak to me,
I can say something about this guy but first let me tell you about life. Often people try to gain power over you by using "reverse psychology". For example, I had a crush on a woman but she wanted to play games with me and hide the fact that she had a crush on me too. I walked away from her and she texted me "You can walk away. It's your decision".
This was a display of two people trying to gain power over the other. Both of us trying to portrait that "I don't care" attitude while we both wanted to stay and do something totally different. These tactics are used a lot by people.
This guy was doing something like that to you. JUst look at what he said. How can you be a slut (I hate that term by the way) for not having sex? Why would he want to have sex with a girl with diseases? Why would he want sex with a lowlife?
He was also trying to gain power over you by using "Reverse psychology". BUt also at the same time making the situation easier by saying stuff that won't hurt his ego too much. I can't tell you how many guys I have seen trying to get with a girl and then when she doesn't want sex with him he will say something to himself and other people "Aah, she's a whore anyway". Yes, this is absolutely ridiculous behavior. of these guys.
Don't be with guys like this. Don't even be friends with guys like this. These are also the guys that spread a lot of rumors.
He sounds petty and immature. Some men do that when they feel that they have invested or wasted enough time and you have not given into them. He just wanted sex from you and thats all. I was in a very identical situation to which the guy was so pissed he told me to never speak to him or his family again. Well, did I feel bad? No. Do I still have my virginity? Yes. Its time you moved on and forget him. There are plenty of better guys out there who have soo much more to offer.
Ps. It is never ok for a guy or a woman to disrespect someone they love. Just because he cursed you, he doesn't deserve to be your friend, Break this tie and move on. You are worth much more.
his problem is he wanted something and he wasn't getting it. so like a child he started reacting by hurting. it's like a child who wants a toy. if they can't have it they often will resort to crying, name calling, tattling or violence... so what you have is a child
Not all guys think like you and are saving it for a special person. Many guys just want to have sex, especially since we have a high sex drive. But some guys just want to have sex with a girl and move on, some want to have sex and stay in short-term relationship, some want sex + long-term. Few guys want the same like you and save for as special person or save for marriage. That guy you are talking about is definitely not someone who is saving and is probably someone who just wants to have sex with you.
Usually when a guy's goal is JUST to have sex with the girl, he will get PISSED OFF when the girl refuses to have sex with him. Especially if she didn't give him strong enough reason not to.
My advice to you, if you are looking for a special person, just wait to find those types of guys who are thinking like you. They do exist but you have to wait and find them and filter out a lot of guys.
i uprooted @madhatters4 cuz i agree. He isn't getting what he wants and he's throwing a tantrum. He has the right idea, but his execution is childish and will do the exact opposite. the ignoring part is just the cherry on the top. my advice... find someone else to like, he has already showed signs of disrespect, this is not worth your first time.
BAHAHAHAH al hail to u ma virgin babez 🙏🏻 He was peer pressuring u and made u feel bad so that u could give in. Typical hungry wolves behavior and their tricks. Ur a strong woman and u know it 👌🏼 Most cuties fall for that dirty tricks so i admired u for standing up to what u believe in. Rove yhuuuuu anon babez 👄💋
Don't waist your time. This is a classic way for him to get you to seek his approval ultimately giving in. Something like that is extremely rare. And for me and most of my friends that is extremely attractive. Not just from a sexual point of view but from the fact that you get to do everything first with that person and share all those experiences together. I would congratulate you and wish you the best of luck
I would've acted the same way he did. You had it coming.
Because he does not trust you. Why? Lots of reasons... one might be he can't be trusted himself or have past problems about trust. Not your fault in anyway. And he is immature which is okay in the right age.