My boyfriend and I have been together for just about 3 years. He's out at university (4 hours away from me) and I'm at home in my last year of highschool. We've done long distance over the summer before and I missed him the entire time (we went 2 months without seeing each other). It's been almost 2 months again since we started going long distance again. I've seen him a couple times during these 2 months though. We've noticed lately though that he never has time to talk, our conversations through text are either small talk or us being annoyed at each other. We have also noticed that after each visit it takes longer for us to miss each other. I saw him Saturday and I don't miss him yet. Are these bad signs or just a phase in our relationship do you think?
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It's actually a phase. In away it can mean your relationship has matured a little bit. Since your not going crazy and being sad over how much you miss them.
The less talking part i'm going through that right now with my boyfriend. Though that is because he's having more studying to do so his mind is almost 100% on his work. So I understand that and even if I miss him. It's not that bad since I know if he could he would spend more time with me. So all I truly care about is him passing all his tests, quizzes, and projects.
When y'all are apart do you ever try to do video chats.0