He's really dominant, talkative and outgoing and he's in his 40s. I'm 18 years old, very shy, gentle, affectionate, quiet, introverted, and sometimes demonstrate submissive behaviour like looking away and giggling when he catches me staring at him OR when he strokes my hands and my face.
I am - not - 'weak' or scared to speak my mind, but I only talk when I have something IMPORTANT to say. E. g I love philosophical and political discussions instead of trivial small talk. He tells me I am beautiful and I am certain that he really likes me.
Why does he go for me instead of the other girls and woman around me that are more outgoing?
He sees you as an easy prey. There is only one thing he wants from you. Some guys are REALLY good at finding the "weak or wounded" and capitalizing on those weaknesses to get what we want from a girl.
I am only going to say this once. There is nothing good to come of this. He will only use you for sex and brag to his friends about this conquest. Even though you are 18 it is merely a legal way for him to be a pedophile.
There is something wrong with him that won't allow him to seek out women his own age. Probably because he is a complete loser and older, more confident and experience women can see this immediately.
If I were your Father and knew this, I'd put this man in the hospital
Um a guy that old only wants you for sexual reasons, BELIEVE me. When he approached you, which he probably did because thats how you got in a relationship (because I doubt you approached a middle-aged man because you were intrigued) , he wasn't thinking any thoughts like "I wanna get to know this girl and be friends with her!". A man who's 50 years old doesn't just approach an 18 year old girl without dirty thoughts. He wants to take advantage of you. And if you're fine with being trophy wife... ok..
I get it, he likes to be able to control people, a quiet young, cute girl will let him run the rerelationship. He probably wants to "take care of you" (makes him feel important) He is old so he probably wants to prove something to himself as well.
Well, This guy is very outgoing and he acts shy around me. (Check my recent question to see how reacts when he sees me), maybe he likes the OPPOSITE personality or thinks your very intelligent and kind. Or maybe even pretty. That's what I want to figure out also...