So im happy with my girlfriend half of the week. But the rest of the week she starts to overthink stuff and she senses that I dont care wnough about her. At the end of the week she is always like "there are little things that u dont do and it makes me sad. I feel like you dont care enough." Then I give it another chance and i fix everything. Next week, the cycle repeats. Is that normal? What little things did she mean?
Clearly she has issues... maybe unrealistic expectations... who knows. Let her go, it's not worth the headache. You will never make her happy because she isn't happy with herself. You are better off alone than miserable.
I had a chick like that once. She was nuts. Fun but nuts. After a month or so I was done. It was exhausting.
This is a pattern and it happens every week. You have to decide if this is something you can deal with or if this is hurting you. From your question, it sounds like you are hurt by this.
The problem is, this girl is not going to change unless she wants to. And while you are trying to make her happy, the cycle continues. Aren't you tired?
I know I would be! I'm not saying you don't love her. If you didn't you wouldn't be trying to make things work. But you have to reach a point where the effort isn't worth it anymore.
No one can tell you what the little things are. She seems to overanalyze your relationship and come up with things that she doesn't like. in my opinion it sounds like you two are not compatible. You can't talk about your issues and she keeps finding things that are not working out in the relationship.
Sometimes instead of fixing something, you have to realize that maybe it's just that you two are not good together. I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like it's just not working out.
Ask her what this little things are, and demand for a concrete answer. Such cycles can tire up the relationship and your patience especially, and no it is not normal. Give her a proper sit down and discuss about that before, because even rubbers have their elastic limit. However give her a last chance. If it still continues such a relationship will not be healthy especially with the high frequency of occurrence.
Did you ask her what are the little things you don't do. She could talk about cuddling, communicating, listening, or she could want you to say I miss you today; how was your day. But if you want to keep her then, ask her what it is and give her the love she want.