My father recently got remarried to a really nice lady. She has a son who is 2 years older than me who happens to go to the same university that I go to. He is really nice to me and constantly compliments me. He makes me feel very loved and protected.
I've always tried to stay away from bad things and be sweet to everyone, and my friends say that I'm so innocent that they are sometimes a little scared for me.
I think my stepbrother really takes that to heart, as he is almost always by my side. Whenever guys approach me he always scares them off and hugs me to him, even though the other guys seemed friendly. Even when he hangs out with his friends or when he goes to clubs, he constantly checks up on me, and can get angry if I don't reply soon after.
I have seen a lot of girls asking him out (often very obviously) and he never says yes, often opting to take me out to ice cream or to parks. Because he's so kind I told a lot about myself to him.
Because he is so protective, if I wear a piece of clothing that he thinks reveals too much (my stepmother buys me them), he tells me to go change, and that guys would take advantage of me if I wear tight or short clothing).
However, recently I've been interested in having a boyfriend, but with my stepbrother, it's almost impossible. I am an adult (legally), but when I told him this, he got angry and said that he won't allow it.
I really like being taken care of by him, but is it a good time to try to be out by myself a bit more?
Please respond! I would like your opinions. Thank you!
He says that I am one of the most precious people in his life (even though I haven't known him that long), and that he always be by my side whenever I need him. Sometimes when guys look my way a lot he says to me that he doesn't like it and he wishes he could keep me to himself so other guys won't take advantage of me. My stepbrother also says that he will protect me from anything, and I really do love him for doing all that for me.
I think you are completely right. U need to get out be on your own cauze sooner or later he will find his own girl and will go live his life. So you need to gain experince of life so no one could take advantage of you later. it's very good to have a safe place you can go to if it's hard outside. but we are social creatures we need to get involved with others.
It sounds a bit like your step brother might be interested in you but doesn't want to pursue it because you guys are sort of related now (not by blood though). However, it seems that if he can't have you he doesn't want other guys to have you either. Have you noticed anything strange about his behavior, is it possible that he likes you more than a step brother should like his step sister?