I'm not hypocrite, who's not dreaming to date a hot or boy next door or look alike model? But what if you know someone admires you and he/she ask you out? That person is not attractive or have something wrong combination in appearance but you barely to that this man is admire and respects you. Would you dare to say yes?
Someone ask you out, you just know that person admires you but she's/he's ugly. But the way she/he ask you can feel that really respect you. Would you dare to say yes?
The vast majority of the people I date aren't very attractive to me. I thought for a long time I was asexual but it turns out I just have really specific tastes. So I've been faced with this situation a lot. I usually try my best to convince them not to ask before they actually ask but occasionally they do and I can't bring myself to say anything but yes. Rarely does it have a happy ending. I usually feel uncomfortable through most of the date and if it last more than just a date I often push them away because although I can look interested and happy on the outside my insides are a tornado of regret, fear, and guilt.
Why is it something I would dare to do? I refuse to as sexuality is a huge part of dating to me, if I don't find you sexually attractive, I don't see you as a potential dating option. I think that is great she adores me and had the confidence to ask me out, and I am flattered, but I would not want to waste my time and hers on dates that I don't really want to be on.
Now I don't care if other people find a girl attractive or not, it is 100% on what I think of her- if that is more what you meant lol
I did. She wasn"t UGLY ugly, but she was not really my type and I could tell it wasn't going to improve. (... and I've checked Facebook and I dodged a bullet.) I did dump her, but that was because 1) I was on the rebound after being heartbroken by a hottie and 2) there were definitely major personality differences that weren't going to be overcome easily and she was not worth it.
Who finds her unattractive? Me? Or does she not fit the mold of societal thoughts on beauty?
Hypothetically speaking, if I find her attractive then that's all I care about. If I don't find her attractive, though, then I could not go out with her. It just wouldn't be fair to either of us. We could totally be friends, though.
... No, I wouldn't get with them. Why? I need to be physically attracted to you, in order to be in a relationship to you. I really don't care if they "cared" about me, people aren't desperate to just jump with someone who cares for them, there are plenty of other people who you'll find attractive and will care for you just as equal.
Yes I did say yes. Not my last girlfriend but the one previous I actually want physically attracted to her at all. She was just a really nice girl and hadn't had a relationship before so I thought I would give her a chance.
I wouldn't recommend it. No matter what people say, looks are count. You need to have that attraction.
I would not say yes. It's cool I guess that he respects me and looks up to me (actually might be just a little bit creepy if we don't even know each other) but no, I would still not go out with him. At least not on a romantic date. Maybe as a friend if he was up for it but even then it would be awkward if he likes me so much, it's better to just not have any contact so that he can move on. My reason is that I simply can't be in a relationship with someone I don't find attractive. It wouldn't be fair to him, and it wouldn't be fair to me either. Looks aren't everything, no, but it's hard to be intimate and have sex with someone you don't feel attraction to at all. And those are pretty big parts of a relationship, and I simply can't overlook them. Nobody expects anyone to want to be in a relationship with someone you don't connect with/are attracted to emotionally, so why expect it for someone you're not attracted to physically? For a relationship to really work, there needs to be both emotional and physical attraction. Otherwise you might just call it a friendship or something.
For a few dates, yes. To see if what is beneath the surface draws me to that person. Sometimes attraction can be built. But if I don't feel a spark after the second date, I just thank them for the opportunity to get to know them and hopefully we part on good terms.
I need to be attracted to the person to date him. But looks isn t the only thing I look for, but his attitude. He can be average looking but quite a fascinating guy to talk to, then I ll date him. Respect isn t a good reason to date him. I respect everyone I interact with and expect the same thing.
No I wouldn't date a physically ugly girl/boy on a dare, frankly I wouldn't date a physically good looking girl/boy on a dare either if I didn't like them. It wouldn't be fair to put any false hopes. If I liked them it would be a different story and I'd ask them on a date contrary to if they were physically bad looking or good looking.
Dare? Yes. Would I? No. I only date men I'm attracted to.