Well it becomes important after the infatuation fades out if you can hold out that long. I am a virgin so I'll make the guy wait for a year or at the least 6-8 month before I lose it because I want it to be with somebody who I know is in it with me for love not sex and someone I have a long term relationship potential with. After that I will gradually reduce the time interval before we have sex, like for the second guy it might be 8 months, then for the third it might be 6 but it won't go down after 2 months minimum. Its actually easier to abstain from sex when you're virgin then when you have had sex and know how awesome it is, thats what I have heard.
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Very important.
Not that I don't love spending time with my boyfriend outside of the bedroom. Whether it's playing badminton together, grabbing sushi, or just chatting and him being all cute. A night of cuddling can be just as enjoyable as a night of sex, but without the sex, how would we differ from just being best friends?
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Sex is the most important. Which is why I save it for my husband.
What if you found you both NOT SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE on the first night of marriage? That sounds disastrous for me. People only buy after testing the products, that's the general rule.
I don't care about ''sex before marriage'' thingy. That's just basically saying ''she acts upon societal conditiong not through her internal feelings.''
I'm not going to be with someone who's uptight, not following her heart.
At some point, yes. If my girlfriend wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, then I would be willing to wait. But if my girlfriend never wanted to have sex at any point in time, I would leave her.
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Very important, I couldn't wait too long for that. I want to believe I'd wait for the right girl, but if she wants to wait like 3 months for example, then she's not the right girl for me.
A relationship without sex can't work, at least not with me.no, I will not wait till marriage, that is just religion trying to control people, plus I'm an adult, not in highschool, i will not sign up for a high school relationship
Important, very much so actually, but that doesn't mean you can't wait a bit before you're more comfortable with each other. Waiting until marriage is just silly though. The typical mark if you take it slow is 6 months of being in a relationship. If you still don't want to have sex by that point, then they're just being strung along.
I can wait some period of time based on ethics (to a point), but ultimately, I cannot feel wanted in a relationship if my partner doesn't sexually desire me, and really want to act on that desire.
That's on top of the fact that I have sexual frustration of my own or want it. But that's almost a separate thing.its not the most important thing, but its pretty important. if i was with someone who didn't want to have sex, of course i would repsect that, but it's somthing i feel like i need so it would be a little bit hard.
SSex is important for the physical side of a relationship but it's by no means something it should be based on. There is so much more to a relationship than in the bedroom.
No sex=no relationship. A relationship without sex is like having a best friend from the opposite gender, and I dont need that. I need a best friend from the opposite gender that has sex with me so I can call it a Relationship.
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Yes eventually.Isn't a relationship without sex like a friendship?
How will you know if you guys are even compatible in bed...I do think it's essential.
If a guy does not want to have sex within the first 3 months, then I'm out. Sorry. I'm not waiting until marriage, either. Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship for me.It is hugely important. There is not such thing as a healthy heterosexual relationship with a strong connection that does not include a good sexual relationship. Great sex is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. Without it there WILL be problems.
i chose B.
either way its something we are gonna do no matter what so I dont make it my priority in a relationshipI absolutely need/want sex in the relationship. I would like to have that emotional connection with a guy. And having that sexual attraction and desire by him, is a turn on.
No but I'm at that age when as a guy where I'm looking more for companionship/trust over sex/lust.
There is relationship, then there is dead relationship (without sex) , the there is living relationship (with sex) .
Your pickWhat's the point of a relationship without it? Sounds like a friendship.
How important is get a girl first? xDDD but even im a loner i think sex have a important place. but this doesn't mean that sex its everything
Having had bomb sex with my boyfriend, I would like to continue having bomb sex.
Frankly, I wouldn't mind dying a virgin, don't know if that is because I'm a virgin... or if I were to be a virgin no longer I would care.
Pretty important, I don't want a relationship without intimacy.
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