Female friend told me I'm racist because I have only dated white girls. That's like saying I'm homophobic because I won't date a guy. And how could I even date a non white girl Im more of a nerdy guy so I have only dated a few girls and I dont have any non white girls in my friend circle. Also It's not weird to prefer dating your own race. I mean Arab girls prefer their own men black girls too Asian too etc. It's not like I'm some holy being and I'm taking away all women of colors privilidge of dating me. "Oh man Im so upset by the fact that that pale chubby nerd guy isn't interested in me. I wish I could get a piece of that marshmallow" I think everyone should be with whoever they want as long as they make them happy.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you should re-read what you have typed.
1. Having a sexual preference is not the same since we all have the same genitalia as the people of our sex (not talking about details just the fact that we either have vags or pinies)
2. You're claiming that a non-white girl cannot be 'nerdy'... I wonder what personality traits do you think women of color have (generalization here, which can be taken as racist)
3. I honestly don't care if a guy is not black so what you said about us all prefering our own is not true, maybe depending on your area, a lot of people can be indifferent towards that.
I do agree that having a racial preference isn't racist, but it depends on why you have that preference. As long as it's not because of an obsession or stereotyping a race then it's not racist. Oh and refusing to date another race because of your preference isn't really a preference. That's called exclusive racial preference or something among that term.4
Most Helpful Guy
It's okay to have preferences. Some people choose to exclude anyone who is short, fat, skinny, has short/long hair, whatever their physical deal-breakers are because they are not attracted to a certain physical attribute or a body type. That doesn't mean they think less of those people, they are just not sexually attracted to them or don't see them as potential partners. Or perhaps they are looking for a cultural similarity which is okay too. Many non-whites only date within their own race but it's mostly whites who get judged or called racist for the same thing. It's weird.
You date who you wanna date. I mean, it would be crazy to date who you don't feel like dating just to be politically correct. It's your life.2