If you are dating someone how often (roughly) do you message them?

As above - trying to work out all this dating malarky!


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Most Helpful Guy

  • i read Roughly Massage them... lol!!!
    uhm, my massages are usually gentle, with just enough pressure to loosen the muscular fascia... jk! :p

    i think 3 convos a day is good,
    good morning text
    lunch break text
    and good night text

    it would also be awesome if you just call people like in the old days <3

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I message them whenever tf I want. If I wanna talk to them, I tell them. I'll send them funny pictures with no context, I'll send random song lyrics/links. I'll tell them something funny that happened to me, so in general, a lot. if im dating someone it usually means I love talking to them

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What Guys Said 2

  • I personally message them daily, whenever we have the opportunity and she's not busy. Then ask to meet up/Hang out because messaging is no where near as fun as being with them in person lol ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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  • I am not a big fan of texting, Too impersonal If she has something to say to me I had rather her look me in the eye and say it. And don't even get me started on trying to text whole conversations, pretty sure I would prefer being single. I was going to say it was an age thing But my girlfriend is 40 and loves to text.

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What Girls Said 12

  • We text several times a day. Once in the morning, here and there as time allows throughout the day, and at night. There is no right or wrong, as long as an effort is being made.

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    • I agree and that is a good metric on the health of the relationship.

  • Usually I message them every day, aslong as they're available to chat and when they're not thats okay too!

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  • I message him (read: contact him) when I have something I need to tell him. Whenever that may be.

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  • All the time basically.

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  • Depends on the level of feelings I am having for the guy. If its just sex or if I'm using the guy not that often. But if i'm into you and we are dating, I can be very annoying with my text messages.

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  • Everyday? Wtf? I'd probably have a convo once every few days.

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  • Every single day

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  • Every day :)

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  • Everyday. Basically all day, when I am not at school

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  • Everyday. _

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  • Every second of every day pretty much!

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  • Everyday

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    • even if you are just 'dating' ie not in a relationship?

    • Yep

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