The guy I have been seeing has been super adorable recently but today he left to go back home.
I will see him at a party next week & then never again maybe.
Today he left a note saying "cya beautiful" & then messaged me saying "I will miss you"
Then I texted him now he is home & he isn't replying...
He's been online.
Is this how it will be from now on, all the time we spent together is worthless & it just ends? Can I ask him what happens now? Why isn't he talking to me?
Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes people forget they got a message0
Most Helpful Girl
You should understand something haha. Guys are sweet talkers, they are good with their words. Meaning they can say one thing but meant nothing. This guy you're talking about probably isn't that interested in you (no offence) but if a guy truly want a women, they would go out of their way to get her, not be online for a couple of minutes leaving her message hanging, and even if he's busy, he would actually try his best to reply your message and guys who truly like you would probably be awaiting for your text. Or, he could just be nervous and don't know how to reply you? But that's kind of dumb... Trust me, he doesn't sound that worth it.
However, one way to make him not make you feel that helpless, is to not reply his messages that immediately. When a women doesn't immediately text him or keep him waiting and stuff, he'll actually have to put in effort to win your heart, so basically, if you want him head over heels in love with you, I think that you should try playing hard. If you find it really difficult to not reply him immediately, then occupy yourself, do something else, go listen to music or whatever, just don't reply him immediately. Actually you can, but don't do it all the time. Get it? Oh and add emotions to your text, like for example: "Are you okay? :(" "That's for me to know and for you to find out :)". If you get what I mean.
You probably really like this guy. Just remember, there are many other fishes out in the sea. Well, I think that's what it's called...0