I'm 20 years old. I've only ever had sex with one person in my life and that was my ex boyfriend, the reason being because I trusted him and loved him and he cared. Since then, I've tried the whole 'one night stand' thing but I always stop at the last second because it just doesn't feel right to me to have sex with someone I don't know or someone who doesn't care.
I don't plan on waiting until marriage to have sex again or anything like that lol but I'd have to get to know a person and trust them and make sure they care before I can even want to have sex with them. Is this bad? A lot of my friends can just have sex with anyone and not get their feelings invovled. I honestly don't know how they do it and it makes me feel like I'm not normal because I don't want to just sleep with anyone.
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You should not feel like you are not normal, of course you are. Is it normal to want to wait to have sex? Of course it is for you and that is what is important. If all the man or woman wants is to have sex with you then they aren't worth your time. Relax, the right person will come along and you will know that it is the right time to give yourself to them and receive what they offer. In the mean time masturbating is a wonderful way to learn more about your body and prepare it for that wonderful time you truly make love to another.1