My standards for guys are so high that I can't find someone and it makes me both sad and frustrated. I really want to find someone but unless he's exactly what I want then I don't feel attracted to him and don't develop any feelings at all.
I've tried dating guys who are good but doesn't have everything I want but it doesn't work. I just like them as friends and feel disgusted just thinking about being anything more than that with them. I can't be in a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to, don't have any feelings for and even feel disgusted by.
I've always been very picky so this is nothing new but it's starting to really get to me now. Many of my friends has been in relationships for years and now live with their bf/gf, have kids etc. and I can't even find another guy that I like enough to even kiss.
This is making me very unhappy so it needs to change, I just don't know how to change it.
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I don't think there is a way to change that. I am the same way as you. If you find a way to change it, please let me know!
Nah, I am joking. I don't really want to change it. I have accepted it and I think you should learn to accept it too, otherwise you are always going to be sad about it.
I believe that it is better to be on your own, rather than settle for someone you don't like or someone you simply tolerate.
Even being with someone you simply tolerate can be a living hell. I am saying that based on the things friends and acquaintances tell me.
So let's just say that the guy you have formed in your head never makes an appearance in your life, so fucking what?
The quality of our lives should not be determined by whether we have a lifelong partner or not.
There are more things in life than that.0