There's a guy who I can't tell is just shy (he's inexperienced with girls) or just not interested. I wanted to make a bold move and ask him out on a date. How should I go about it in case he's just not interested and what's your opinion on girls asking guys out?
Most Helpful Guy
Find some things that interest him that you share an interest in. Then find an event that serves that interest and tell him about it. Tell him you want to go, and would he be interested in going with you.
Assuming he accepts, he might not know whether you mean to go as a friend or on a date. If he doesn't want clarification on that right away, you're in like Flynn! His imagination will likely wander and if there is any potential there, he'll ponder the possibilities and perhaps develop a crush on you. Or he'll make his less desired intentions clear.
In any event, I think it is great that you want to do this. Worst thing is to be too forward. Guys have vivid imaginations and this is a tool to work to your advantage. I salute your courage - not many women would consider doing it. Good luck!!0
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Most Helpful Girl
She's confident and bold.1