Say you're dating or in a relationship with a woman and she seems to change over time.. Like she's super happy with you at first but then becomes more and more withdrawn and distant both physically and emotionally. Should you bring it up with her and try to get to the bottom of what's wrong or should you wait for her to trust you enough to talk it out? Basically whose responsibility is it in a relationship setting? When you feel that emotional connection decreasing over time is it a sign that you aren't right for each other or just have communication issues that can be worked out?
Please discuss. It would help me be a better guy in the future. I'm not always the best at picking up on these signals and would like to become better at it.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should ask her about it: say you are feeling some distance starting to grow between the both of you. If she feels it too, and if she knows a reason for it. If everything is ok with her. u would like to help.
You should try to fix these things as soon as u can. A small problem can easily become a big one if enough time passes.
If she isn't ready to tell u yet. then u need to be patient. But her knowing u are there for her, no matter what it is, counts for a lot in a woman's mind.1
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Most Helpful Guy
I would talk to her and try to find out what's going on. I just wouldn't want to wait, I need to be sure of how things are going so that I can take actions... or not.1