So my girlfriend drank a lot with out me and she said she wishes her ex boyfriend of 4 years was still there because she was sick and I guess he always used to take care of her when she was sick. Even though I would have done the same thing last night had she let me be around her.
There is also this guy who she swore to me that she stopped talking to and even showed me where she cussed him out and told him to stop hitting her up. So last night she told me while she was drunk after telling me she misses her ex. That she was going to go hang out with this guy and that she needed to stop texting me.
So I got really devastated, and really sad I just told her whatever if she really feels that way then I can't talk to her tomorrow at all which is today. So she texted me this morning around 3:49am and told me how sorry she was that she was just drunk and pissed off at me and that she never really went out last night and how she just wanted to fall asleep. Which she did I guess. Now my trust in her is completely shattered, I'm so confused because we want to move in with eachother. And I don't know I just feel over all like she doesn't truly love me if she can say that. I don't know what to do next, she offered me a week break if I wanted one, and she told me that I shouldn't be with her because she is a horrible person. What should I do? If I forgive her then what?
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for her to say those things at all, even though she was drunk, shows there's some kind of unhappiness or insecurity or something she has in her relationship with you. if you wanna try to work it out, ask her why she thinks she said those things. if you'd rather not deal with her drama, just break up with her. one week breaks are useless so I really advocate either work it out or leave.2
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