So yeah, I feel embarrassed to say this. Whenever I develop romantic interest in a girl, and our personalities seem to match as well, I realise that she is either taken, or in interested in someone else. So it turns out that I have no chance with her.
Is it just my misfortune, or are single girls an endangered species? And what can I do in this situation? I'll be 30 in a month, and I feel time is running out for me. School boys are able to find single girls to date, so why not me? 😞
Please don't suggest dating sites. They're useless for all but the most good looking men.
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First of all, you're almost 30. MANY people don't find their first love until years later. Yes, it is harder to find single girls as you get older but you can find them.
I think it's just your misfotune. I'm in the same boat where I usually fall for girls who are taken, like someone else, or just not right for me.
If you're going to one or two places to meet women then it's time to branch out. Go to places where you have a hobby that way you can find someone else who likes it too.
And for the love of God, protect your heart so that you don't fall for girls too fast. I made this mistake and kept getting disappointed and heartbroken when I find out a girl is taken or into someone else. Before befriending a girl, try to subtly find out if she's dating or into someone that way you can decide whether or not you should continue to stay friends with her or make a move.0