i have a great boyfriend, and he is wonderful to me, possibly the best lover i have ever had, however as of lately i have been seeing little old things from his past relationship, and its been bugging me, pics, cards, etc in his parents house ( he lives with me now ) ( old stuff) sex video, lingerie, etc really bugging me, i tell him how much it bugs me and he says its the past, bla bla and gets rid of it, ok... HOWEVER, there are A LOT of similarities from his past, in our relationship, so it makes me feel that there isn't really anything special between us, i can almost assume he was the same loving person to her as he is with me, so in the middle of an altercation i said, these are the same diamond earrings you even bought her, and he said. so? thats the past, and ever since i can't get over it, i even cried on my way to work because im literary shutting down on him, i dont want to be around him, i feel vulnerable that i open myself so much to love someone who i have a feeling just duplicates relationships...
Most Helpful Guy
He loves you, cares about you and your problem is that he loved and cared about his previous girlfriends too? Grow a pair and face the fact that you're happy. No relationship is "special" betwee any two people, it's only something you make up in your mind. You have a good relationship, just keep it going.1
Most Helpful Girl
Try telling him that if he isn't going to respect your wishes then your going to break up because this isn't the way you want the relationship to be0