For instance, he'll take you out once in a while but you guys have sex most of the time. He says all these nice things to do but his actions show differently. Why would a guy use a woman for sex only even when if she's a great woman? What are the reasons i must know. Does he just desire her looks?
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I'm kind of in the same boat, but I'm the guy in this situation. The truth is, I do like her and think she's pretty and fun to be around, but I know I can do better so I don't want to limit myself when/if a better girl comes along. I know that sounds horrible, but it's the truth. If I wasn't seeing the current girl I'm seeing I would get no sex or female affection which is something all straight men are constantly craving, it's basically better than nothing. I was so sick and tired of chasing and waiting for the perfect girl to come along that I just got involved with a girl who I sort of like and think she's attractive because she showed interest in me and I knew I could get what I was looking for. He already knows you're not what he's looking for so he's just keeping you around until a "better" option comes along. Sorry if that's super harsh, but it's the truth.1
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