For the past few months I have had a crush on an older guy. He is nice and he attends some meetings that I attend. Recently, I have notice that he is becoming distant. Its like he is giving me the cold shoulder and avoiding me. I hate this feeling and just want to know whats going on. We don't have much of a talking relationship for me to ask him about it. Also, I found out that he took me off the texting list =, so everyone gets textes from him concerning information about him not coming to a meeting or coming late. I know this is childish but I can't decipher this guy. Likewise, he does not text back if i send a friendly message. Should I just give up on thinking about him? Is he a jerk and just showing a nice face when I see him?
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Guys don't avoid girls on purpose without a reason. Last time I avoided a girl like that was because I realized that I had feelings about her (she was a co-worker) and felt awkward about it (she had a boyfriend) so I decided to phase her out slowly. I was way more subtle than your dude however.1