Me and my ex broke up like 2 weeks ago.. anyway, it was a short relationship but I still would like to try again. He said he lost feelings for me after an argument. I maybe like showed interest the 1st weekend by showing up (writing letter, etc) But then I finally cussed him out (yes childish I know). But then I apologized a few days ago because the guilt was eating me up. He responded to my text saying everything was OK and thanked me for the aplogy AND letter. He also said he always thinks positive of me. I pretty much said the same and that was it. My next question is do I not contact him at all now and wait for him to make a move? He sees im back to my old self and pretty much not dwelling on our relationship anymore. Or should I keep on trying to establish a relationship with him by contacting gradually again? Any advice be good and regardless the pain is gone so even if I don't get back with him I'm OK. I just still love him and other guys I've dated since I always compare. So any tips be great!
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Right now is a very delicate situation. You've apologized and he's accepted, yet you're both still apart because he still needs some time to cool down. I suggest you take a week without any contact and if he doesn't contact you in that week, you text him just so he knows you're still around, but keep it simple and don't even talk about how things went down. Just ask him how he is ie. Give it another few days after that and if he still hasn't contacted you, then reach out again and ask him if he'd be willing to meet up with you so you two can talk. Relationship talks are always better in person, never over text or phone. If he does contact you in between, your objective is to ask him eventually if you two can meet. This will give you the best possibility of reconnecting.1