Me and my girlfriend are in a argument cause i see her 2 times a week. we're both busy and making time is a bit tough. i told her "isn't texting you every day enough?". Then she got mad? Do i need to put more effort in or am i ok the way i'am?
The answer is, you clearly don't need to see her as much as she needs to see you to feel content. You said you're both busy, but she is willing to make room for you. There is the possibility that she's only mad, because she wanted you to complain too instead of seemingly being ok with how things are, but let's assume this is not the case. Some people solve that problem by inviting the bf/gf to almost all of their activities, and letting them decide if they want to join that gamers night or whatever.
2 days out of 7 is a low number. Since that is bothering her and if you really like her as a girlfriend you can try to find time to meet on lunch or something just to put more an effort in seeing her. I'm sure she will appreciate it and see that you are a doer and not the guy to make excuses.
It depends on the people's schedules and the moment of the relationship, in general the frequency increases as the relationship moves forward. If you've been dating for several months is understandable that she wants to see you more often. I always have busy schedules as well, but if I'm in a relationship I like to go out with that person at least once on the weekend, and have dinner at home and spend the night together at least 2 twice a week.
Also, maybe you need a certain amount of time to yourself. How often would she like to see you?
I'd be happy with 2 times a week but if it was possible to see each other a bit more I'd certainly welcome it. I guess it all depends on how long the "2 times a week" is. Maybe you two should talk about this a bit more so you can figure out exactly why she got mad and how you two can deal with it.
My boyfriend and I live 15 minutes apart, but because he is disabled and I do not drive right now, we hardly ever see each other. If you care about each other, you make it work. However, we do make a point to talk to each other on the phone every night for about an hour or more. Talking rather than texting is a lot more intimate. You miss things in texting that you can pick up on through someone's voice. However, because we tend to talk on the phone at the end of the night and in the morning, we do not text as often.
So, I am not saying that I would not like to see him more often. If I could, I would spend every day with him, but that is just not realistic. There are some weeks we do not see each other at all. Like I said, if you care about each other you will make it work somehow.
The way you said it wasn't very nice, it makes it sound as if that is enough, as in why would you want more?
In my opinion, if you don't want to spend as much time as you can with your new beau then why are you with them? I don't get this half arsed dating. You either like them enough to date them and therefore want to see them, or you just don't.
Both party's need to have the same understanding and expectations of a relationship because it varies for everyone. If you are content with 2 days but she wants 3,4,5,6 Maybe it's not a good match between you two.
when my boyfriend and i first started dating we only saw each other once a week after a few months it became 3-4x/week then about 9 months in it became 5-7x/week now that he travels a lot for his work, once a month
it really depends on your schedules, how long you've know each other, and how far you two live from each other
my boyfriend goes to a different school and i see him usually once or twice during the school week and usually on the weekends. im perfectly fine with it, because people do get busy and things come up. you should talk to your girlfriend to see what's really going on and see why she got so upset