How do you ask a girl out when you have to be her friend first? That's what I don't understand. Let's say I walk up to a girl behind doing her job. Would you just ask her to go out to movies or something?
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Personally, most of the guys I've dated went through the "friends" stage. It's when you get to know each other in a casual way. There's little flirting happening, but no direct display of affections. I think that girls would like to get to that stage where they're comfortable around you first, before deciding to go out and officially date you. When you're almost at that point, try to isolate her from her friends and invite her to "hang out". You'll know she's interested in going further when she's fine with just the 2 of you "hanging out". Plus, IF EVER your affections for her disappeared or she doesn't really "like u" like u(IF EVER! ), at least you've made and established a good friendship with her.0